When I first decided to quit drinking, I was so

When I first decided to quit drinking, I was so worried about how to spend time with my friends and family (all of whom drink) because I thought it would be weird or they would be distant or I would feel isolated or not involved. But I have been so pleasantly surprised with how supportive my friends/family have been about me not drinking- I wish I hadn’t spent so much time being worried about it.
Example: Every Christmas, my parents and I have cinnamon rolls and mimosas- family tradition! I just spoke to my mom and she was so excited to tell me that her and my dad found a non-alcoholic mimosa drink they were going to make for all of us this year :relaxed:
Maybe people around me are just sick of always drinking when they’re with me lol. But it’s really cool to feel like my sobriety isn’t just “tolerated” it’s like- embraced.

(As I typed this I realized it’s probably because everyone else isn’t as single-mindedly obsessed with alcohol as I am so it’s not a big deal lol :joy: Duh)

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Keep it up! Sounds like you are doing well. :love_you_gesture:t3:

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My family all drink.I have not been around them.I all ways let them be.they don’t bother me.1986

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I found my friends and family really supported me in my sobriety. Also found a new great group of friends. Down here we have the Recovery Cafe. I understand it was started in Seattle. It’s a great place to volunteer and helps me fill in some downtime.

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Oh I’m close to Seattle (ish) I might have to check that out! I’m so glad to hear you’ve had support in your sobriety as well :relaxed: