When I use to drink. I loved going out to

When I use to drink. I loved going out to party. But now that I am sobber. It is the opposite. Am I the only one who feels like this

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Duhhhhh
We all feel like that

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Nope, you're not alone. I feel like a hermit sometimes. Can't stand the loud music, obnoxious party goers, and just over all, I do not feel the same as I did while in active addiction. It's kinda weird but it's progress. It think I've learned the winde up prior to acting out or getting drunk was a high on its own.

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Give it some time
You need to be sober to be social not just a dry drunk still craving
It passed in time and you eventually will not miss it
Home is ok for now but as you go along your journey I feel you will find sober socializing and going out more natural in time
I now sit at a bar with friends and still don’t drink but it took 9 years to get there
Time heals all wounds

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Thank you

Thanks. I needed to hear that