When you first started to get back into the dating game and seeing someone who was not an alcoholic/addict, how did you explain to them your situation (not necessarily your history/story) and your need to be a part of the program?
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I’m allergic to alcohol.
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You’re gonna be surprised by some reactions. 1). So many people know someone or are related to someone in Recovery 2) There are people looking for a drinking buddy. This will sort itself out quickly. 3) People will be sensitive to drinking around you.
But my advice is to start small. Don’t blab you’re whole story on date 1. A simple I don’t drink is usually solid and if you’re really feeling the need for honesty say I’m in Recovery. That takes guts and in my experience typically goes over well. Good luck to you
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I meant explaining to then that you are in aa and need to attend meetings but thanks for your contribution
I just say that I don’t drink and I go to meetings several nights per week. But I am also very open about my recovery. I wear it like a badge of honor.
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Women can be tough. It's almost as if I am expected to disclose everything upon the very first text message or call. I just be open and honest. Get a lot of bad reactions but I feel peace Within Myself
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