Why is it so hard?

I'm in the Alexandria, Virginia area. Why is it so hard to find a companion on mate that does not get high that does not drink that does not have all of these issues? I'm a 50 year old single man with a good job I do not have those in any activities leading to my past life... Yes, I have urges sometimes like anyone else. Yet my peace of mind is more important to me. Using is not peace! I feel awesome simply being myself. I'm looking for a good lady to spend some time with, and also one whom we can let each up. Are there any out there?


Oh I'm there bro. God is my saving anchor. It's just crazy. People would rather see others struggling with addiction destitute in life, rather than see one sober.