Going to a wedding tonight…. Any advice?
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Do you trust yourself around alcohol especially at a wedding?
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Jeremy, drive yourself, and leave as soon as you become uncomfortable…..you can no longer live like people without an addictive brain! Or dont go which is the wise move….Keith Kayle
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I don’t know, this is my first sober family function
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Right on…. We’ll like Keith mentioned , leave if you feel the need but good luck in staying strong 
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You don’t have to stay for the whole thing. I kind of dread weddings anyway. I’d rather send a card & a toaster. Good luck, brother💪
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plan your AF beverage and have that as your go-to . And remember, no need to worry about drinking too much water or ginger ale! Also, as stated, leave if you start feeling uncomfortable.
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I made it, it became to much quick. Made up a bs lie and my phones ringing nonstop but I made it out af. Really appreciate the advice.
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That’s awesome Jeremy… way to win that battle
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Have an “out”. If you need to talk call me before you drink. You can do this. Call or text me any time tonight. If I’m asleep I’ll wake up. 601-672-6591. This is a great opportunity to grow
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I’m going to my niece’s wedding in little over a month. I’m 95 days sober and feeling great, but am afraid that in overconfidence, I might fall for that voice and relapse again. I decided to attend the wedding, but leave and go home before the heavy reception drinking begins. Don’t want to chance my sobriety.
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Thanks for the support
Great plan, once you leave turn your cell off.
Good point. Cut off the drunk calls—lol.
Perhaps missing the event until you feel comfortable in that situation is best
You have to start somewhere.
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My first. I went early and left early, I drove myself so I could leave whenever. When they bring around champagne, turn your glass over and drink and cheer with water. If you aren't sure if your drink is in the glass you were using, get another glass with water so you don't drink someone else's "drink" or bring your own beverage container so you know it's yours. Prepare before with whatever your spiritual journey of choice is, pray or meditate, etc. Lastly be there for family, enjoy yourself and each moment of that experience and use your phone to call any sober supports you may have if you get squirrelly, before you take an action. You could also hang out with the kids keeping them entertained if most of the adults are drinking.
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I’ll never feel 100% comfortable surrounded by people drinking but definitely glad I went.
I couldn't go to the reception. Be supportive and all at the Wedding and maybe catch them early reception then bounce. I'm solid but that environment is SUPER tempting my friend. Perhaps you are stronger than me but I wouldn't risk that one.
Good luck sir
Own your sobriety, and have a blast!!!