I’m 143 days sober and am feeling unmotivated, barely taking

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#63

Wow, there’s a lot more support on this post than I have had in the year I have been on this app.

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#64

Task completion helps me! I make a list of goals big ones small ones and it feels good to complete the goals!

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#65

Glad your here😊

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#66

143 means I love you. Sober and free!! Today I can feel happy and so can you :blush::purple_heart:. You begin by loving self. Learn to love yourself Journal what your feeling take the power out and ask your HP for some positive people in your life. Seek counseling it helps. Get to a meeting, find a sponsor work the steps you got this. Take the negative out. Write about Gratitude what are you truly grateful for list 5 things and do it everyday. Your life will change. I promise. Almost 4 yrs for me. Wishing you positive vibes. Cindy​:purple_heart::pray::hugs:

#67

I am yes!!! Thank you all so so much for this support here. Beyond appreciated.

#69

Thank you!! Need to work on finding me a sponsor :slight_smile:

#70

Lol

#71

Right? Lol

#72

I have no idea why 🤷. Timing maybe. Sometimes this great community can be super attentive and really step up :+1:....:grin:. God bless em

#73

Easy does it.

#74

Just try to be a pretty girl and you'll get more attention

#75

Man, oh man there's a LOT of traffic on this thread! You know what that means? Identification. Identification is a valuable asset/tool in recovery. It lets us know that we're SIMILAR. Our stories may be different but we suffer from the same disease/disorder. I have learned to identify with the feelings, not our differences. We're human and NOT perfect. Recovery doesn't always move in a straight line. Thanks for sharing, Laura.

#76

Don’t mean to be on your d**k
But I feel you and everyone gets like that.

Even men. So if they do they don’t care about their apperance they are full of jt.

Not obsessed but I have a couple grays coming in and I get self conscious so

We live relatively close as far as region.

I don’t talk to a lot of men I find it to kinda be competitive.
Sorta like women being catty, you know?

So I need m like a friend I could talk to. we could hold each other accountable and look out for eachither as far as calling me out when or if I’m slipping