I’m currently on day 3 of hospitalization from pancreatitis. After 4 months of sobriety I relapsed because I couldn’t connect with my partner, who was still drinking. My first bout of pancreatitis occurred after my Dad died last year and I started binge drinking even more frequently. I was sober on and off since then. I made the decision to leave my partner because I can’t rely on him for support. I’m moving into my own apartment in a few days and it’s bittersweet. Antidepressants help but what I really want is a sober community. Hoping to find that here.
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Hang in there. Do you have a support group at all there? Sponsor?
I am sorry your dealing with pancreatitis. I hope you heal quickly and fully.
Try and stay positive, it sounds like you are making the correct decision to better your health and give yourself the best chance to stay sober.
Remember that person, places, and things can effect your sobriety.
Make sure you have a support system in place.
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No but I plan on trying out AA
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Sorry you're going through that pancreatitis sucks.
Yes it does
Okay good. It's working for me and I was full of doubt at first. The main thing is get a good sponsor.
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New apartment new chapter new sober possibilities. You got this 
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Great idea AA has saved many people from a life screwed up from alcohol.
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That’s tough. Pancreatitis is a miserable pain. Hope you are feeling better.
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Message me anytime!!! You’re making the right choice and to also leave the drinking boyfriend. Promise there’s more for you out there in every area
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Follow through on leaving your partner and surround yourself with positive sober peers. I say that so emphatically only because I know first hand what is like to be in that type of relationship. My ex was my biggest enabler and after several attempts at getting sober, I could not remain sober being in that relationship. He didn’t pour the booze down my throat, but he was more than willing to provide it to me when I had doubts and/or questioned my alcoholism. It isn’t going to be easy, but it’s worth it. You are going to hear a lot of stuff about AA. Good and bad. The AA program is the only solution to my disease.
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As they say, it is a progressive disease it gets harder. But good for you seeking a community is key to be able to get through this. You can do it you’ve already got this far!
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Yes try AA get around some good women that got time under their belt & can help you. U got this! I'm on day 21 & I'm a heavy drinker so I know if I can do it so can others. Best of luck to you
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Thanks everyone for the kind words and support 
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You’re post is so brave! Stay strong and get better.
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That’s so hard. I’m in a similar situation. Recently ended a relationship with an unsupportive partner that still drinks heavily. I felt myself questioning sobriety for the first time in awhile and it really shook me. You should feel so proud of yourself for choosing what’s best for you. We shouldn’t have to suffer for connection or community.
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I woke up in a hospital one time and had no memory of being there for 2 weeks I was there 3 and a half total and that was before over a year of rehab so I feel ya it's a long story but I can definitely relate...
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So sorry I wish you a speedy recovery. Definitely look into your options. AA worked great for me when I first got sober so it’s def a good starting point while you get yourself in order with your physical health and meds etc.
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Thank you. It was a tough decision, we were together almost 4 years and even though he pretended to be supportive I never felt stable. I’m feeling better about my decision every day. Thank you for sharing.
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