I’m just depressed I’m being ghosted by someone

I’m just depressed I’m being ghosted by someone I love.

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Hang in there. There really isn't any words that make it feel better but it will be okay. I've been ghosted a couple times. Hurts in the moment. Something new comes up in time.

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Try not to take it personal, it can most definitely be they are going through something and need time to regroup. Pray about it. If you can’t change the situation, feel the emotions and remember you must go on. :relaxed: it will be ok.

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I'm sorry! Dealing with a similarly difficult situation and it's a lot.
I just keep saying to myself "let him" over and over again, because what another person does it out of our control. It's hard.

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It’s really hard!! I’m really glad I have this platform to share and connect with people that care. I feel like giving up? And I’ve been sober for 5 months and I’m just struggling bad

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Jeremy am very happy for you on staying sober. Stay positive you will get through this time.

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Same AF and it’s flipped my entire world upside down. Focus on the things you can control and not so much on the things you can’t. I know it’s easier said than done. Breath, be kind to yourself, and hang in there homie :love_you_gesture:t3:

Hey Jeremy, that’s on them. Don’t let them take you down. I know it sucks.

Thanks yeah it really is there loss.

Loving yourself is the only remedy. Maybe their ghosting is your gain down the road?!

So MoveOn there’s 40 billion people in the world and you want this one that’s your addiction. Try smart recovery.

I’ve been with her for 5 years and we have a kid together

That sucks. I’m really sorry. But in no way will getting fücked up make her come back. Focus on yourself and your child. Be the best person you can be. Work a strong program prioritizing recovery.

As much as it hurts, you deserve more than she is willing/able to give you. You’re a catch and you will find someone who will see that and fight for you just as you fight for her.

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Someone that ghosts really isn’t worth your time to begin with. A true keeper will always be there

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Focus on you first. You’re the most important. As hard as it seems, this shall pass. Find something fun to do with your free time to distract your mind. I’ve learned that I need to get out of my head. Go for a hike, read a book, do a puzzle. We’re all here for each other. You can do this.

I can tell what I wished I did.
I wished I just moved on when that happened.

That sucks man. It's east for me to say try not to let to get you down, but try not to man. Get Tom the gym and hang with friends, one day at a time brother.

Thank you brother that was exactly what I needed to hear no matter what no drinking

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I've dealt with a lot of that too. Thought I lost all my people when I was always drinking and was upset with them for ghosting me. After some time and reflection, I would have ghosted me too!

Still don't have everyone back in my life, but I've tried to understand what it's like in their shoes and that's helped me feel better about it.

They haven't ghosted me, I exhausted them and they need time and space to recuperate. Know they still love and support you. They either don't know how or can't come correct right now.

Take care of yourself first and be someone who you'd want to be with and you will be fine.

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If they stopped ghosting you would all your problems especially with alcohol and or drugs be solved? Doubt it. Get to some meetings. Share exactly what is going on and I guarantee the answers will come.

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