Kicked out of court, we didnt make it

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I got kicked out of court.
My husband raped my daughter. Okay?! My family who didn't believe me about his abuse finally saw who he really was. No apologies no I'm sorries for not believing me. No rally around me as I lost everything. I lost my daughter as he pitted us against one another. He groomed her. Us,me. I lost my family as they took his side and never aknowledged what he did to me. I Even when the truth came out. I daughter lives with the hyenas. I lost a husband (regardless I loved being a wife), I lost my step sons, I lost my childhood family, I lost a father for my son. I lost finacial stability. I lost a lot. Regardless its not about me right?

We did not make it sober

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#2

I'm so sorry that happened to you

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#3

Oh Emily. My heart is breaking for you. Let me know if you need someone to listen.

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#4

I'm sorry to hear this. Get to a meeting and lean on your sober support.if you need to talk let me know.

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#5

Emily I'm so sorry, my heart goes out to you.If you need you can message me.Im here to listen.As another woman in the fellowship I love you

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#6

This hurts to read and my heart breaks for you. Lots of people here to be there for you.

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#7

Just messaged you :heart: sending love and healing to you and your daughter

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#8

Definitely will always take an ear

#9

I’m sorry this happened there are no words or anything I can come up with to make you feel at peace because people are screwed up but if you ever need someone to talk to I’m here anytime day or night

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#10

I’m so so sorry to hear this. My heart aches for you! Feel free to always reach out. We are all here for you

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#11

So sorry Emily. If you do a 12 step program get to a lot of meetings right now. The weight of a mom can be close to unbearable at times but it’s important you build a support system for yourself. I did AA and that’s where I found my tribe. Praying for you!:heart:

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#12

I’m sorry for your pain. My child was touched. It’s a painful story. I blamed myself for so many years. I can only say I’m sorry for how you are feeling. No one deserves this.

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#13

What a POS!!! Don't let it destroy you

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#14

I'm destroyed he was just the icing the cherry the friggen worst. But the layers of cake he used to his advantage are moist and deep

#17

My daughter will never come back to me.
My son who has no idea about s#!+ is my focus. I lost her.

#18

But you still have yourself not what are you going to do.?

#19

Now

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#20

I’m so sorry

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#21

Unfortunately in the middle of a storm is the worst time for a boat to not have direction. Check your maps and compass and get moving forward again. Once the storm is over you can weigh anchor and grieve.

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#23

Thank you steve. My relapse definitely was going to happen before this event. I think I was on my way to a relapse after processing emotions of a breakup, a loss of pregnancy, and problems as always with money but specifically a broken down car that's making things very hard. I lost my sight and started to rely on my will power instesd of the work. Obviously we can will things away. I have had some realizations. Biggest thingi started to do was trying to avoid pain instead of accepting it. Accepting its lonely here. Its depressing but I think I have to accept the loneliness. I have to accpet I'm going to be sad through this process. I kept thinking I could make myself happy. It's just not a happy time for me.