Lonliness sucks! That is all

Too much to explain why this doesnt work. It's been a tragic year very serious traumatic events. I have no support so I can do things for me by myself. Funds are not there for hobbies. I took time off work to work on me and people were supposed to help with Bill's but didnt follow through. I'm legitimately as actively working on not losing my home. Calling programs and trying g to get in person interviews for help. I do all I can. This post isnt as as in I have free time to do things and I'm still lonely. I have no family support nor a fries to lean on.

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:pray::pray::pray:you'll find a way

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I understand your pain

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Hey Emily. I’m in the same boat right now. Lonely. Dealing with life on life’s terms is certainly a struggle. My life right now is work, kids, meetings and being home. You’re not alone

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Sorry to hear all that. Stay strong and if you ever need to vent I’m here. Sometimes it’s good to vent to people you don’t know. Trust me I have my days

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Hello Emily I am lonely also I been single for almost 3 years I am trying I am tall and handsome being in recovery isn’t a attractive element I am loosing hope I don’t want to pay for companionship

Speakers on YouTube Odomthology has some awesome ones on there! Reach out to new comers and praying, getting a sponsor, do what they say. Sometimes we can’t see the forest for the trees, seek community help in your area, God Bless you and yours and Gods Peace and Clarity! Love and Light, Deb

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Thank you for your encouragement

I understand I need to be single. But the pain of being so is unbearable at times. Especially when dealing with big life events. It's super isolating. I get we all have life and we are all at different stages. I'm just at the current state where loneliness feels phsyically painful and triggers me to want to drink.

Yes I kind of want to scream outloud! I wanna kick and scream about all that has happened. I'm so sick of suffering. Sick of being alone. Sick of being isolated. Its just painful. I know no one can "heal me" but it doesnt do anythign about being lonely. Logical side gets it but emotional side is a mess and needs support. Constantly more being dumped on me and wigs soem seriously I need a break. Life is such a b!

:hugs: hugs

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Thank you! I just need some comfortšŸ’•

I understand and feel lonely myself sometimes and can relate to a lot of what you’re going through. Hit me up if you want someone to talk to.

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It takes everything inside to think of something to be grateful about. We all have lost something we use to have. I sometimes I have to admit I'm grateful this won't last and it won't. I'm actually telling myself as I'm writing. I admit I feel lonely and stressed. Sometimes telling someone this will help. We hear you and I'm sending good energy to you.

My body lterally felt pain from this feeling which lead to this post. I hate it. I wish I could design the perfect support person for me and I'll it to life. That would be rather selfish though lol. it just gets overwhelming at times. I want to be strong and not need a group of supporters I dont know hei anyone could do this alone. Yet I've been chugging along trying to.

Sending hugs! I am in the same boat. Very lonely and physically and mentally exhausting.

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All these ways to connect and yet so many of us feeling alone. Hugs!

Your In My prayers

It is a lonely disorder. And the oxymoronic thing is we cannot do this alone.

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