Totally true!
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Spirituality is a key. Make God as a friend. He will never leave you.
Feel free to communicate and be around sober people.
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It does though. But what really sucks is fake or toxic company. Don’t let loneliness push you into bad situations. Start looking at loneliness as if it is just peaceful. We definitely take peace for granted and can mistake it for loneliness or boredom.
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Sorry I dont do religion. But thank you for your kind response.
Well yes, but it doesnt mean there wasnt love there. Or any good times. Or the fact that I loved being a wife and mother to all my children including my step sons. It was soemthing that made me feel whole. So the loneliness is something i enjoyed a year ago. I was needing the separation so bad. I have been lonely and going through tremendous pain from tragedy alone. Its get old and I feel the depths if it. It doesnt mean I always feel this depth of it. But lately I have and that is normal.im not seeking. Advice as. I'm seeking validation and understanding.
Spirituality is not religion, it’s becoming one with yourself.
Okay listen this doesnt work for me and I'm not forcing. I'm not following or forcing something upon myself that doesnt click. A kind understanding instead is needed here. What works for one may not another.
I went through and am going through the same thing. The better you get, the better it will get. Learn to love you and continue moving forward. Everything will come back exactly how it’s supposed to
You absolutely need to do what works for you, these are nothing more than suggestions from experience.
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Trust me your not going through the same thing. I didnt explain the details and I dont feel like it.
Your responses are becoming very offensive. Not listening to me. I do not want to talk about what happened.
It may not be the same thing, but the feelings are similar. I’ve just gotten back in my sons life after 10 years. I had to be patient and continue working on myself.
Ok
In sorry you lived without him. And the loneliness is soemthing yes eveyone experiences. This is why compassion and validation should lead. Not telling me what to do. Please.
Ok I apologize
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I'm trying to say more but it's all too much to type and I cant read after a while what I am typing.
There is many layers here. More the one person can peel back in a year. Luckily I had 3 years of therapy when things started falling over a year ago.
Well unfortunately, typing is the only way to communicate on here
But maybe you should journal and just get it all out that way
People who didnt listen to me for 3 years found the truth out eventually. These people who called me a liar and crazy and all these thing. In my darkest hour abandoned by these people. They never aknowledge the truth nor apologized. They never reached out when the tragedy was known. I was abandoned. I had no support system. This lead to my uptick in drinking to try to remain strong for all who had me under a microscope. And yet when the truth was revealed no one still came to my side.