My wife has been my main trigger lately and it’s

I have 176 days today and trust me I feel you , been married 20 yrs to a normy, who drives me crazy , has no clue how hard this is , all we can do brother is the serenity prayer daily and live it …. Can’t change it and only focus on things that we can change and that is us … we have came too far to mess up now , wisdom to know the difference, hang in there