I am 5 months sober and I have never been to an AA meeting. It didn’t seem to be the right fit for me. I am dedicated to my sobriety but I am lacking connection with people who live the same lifestyle as me!
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Congrats on your sobriety!! Your post is a very common issue that seems to touch many of us. Sobriety can become very lonely if we don’t find our peeps to socialize with. For me, I found a way to work AA into my life. I’ll be the first to admit that this is not always easy, and I understand that it’s a no go for others. Even with my AA connections, I still find this app to be helpful with support and connections. Have you tried any other recovery programs? There are quite a few alternatives out there today.
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Ahhhh, so you never been to an AA meeting because it wasn’t the right fit for you? How do you know it’s not a fit if you’ve never been? Makes no sense. Well, if working your own program seems the right fit then so be it. Also, you do know what that word “but” means right? Means everything said before it isn’t true. So you want to meet people who don’t believe in working a recovery program like yourself in other words. Good luck with that.
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Since I have been sober no I have not been to one. I tried previously and didn’t enjoy it. I was not looking for negative energy from my post. Just sharing a bit of myself and trying to get involved in this community. I am no hating on anyone who has been to AA as I know it’s a tool so many use. I have been very successful in my journey so far. Thank you.
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Thank you I will
Absolutely look into this!
Wasn’t any hate. Just was confusing you saying you never been to any meeting and then it’s not your thing. Whatever works for you. Wasn’t pushing to go. Was just trying to make sense of your post is all.
I quit on my own after 30 years. It was brutal but glad I did it. Now I go to AA to keep it. The fellowship makes all the difference. There are other group options too. AA meeting vary so much you might want to try out a few and see if one is a good fit.
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I’m just open minded to any form of recovery support. I do do AA among other things. I’d suggest going to a few meetings and see if you can find a fit. Opened minded cuz you’ll hear stuff that you won’t agree with, sometimes flat crazy 
look for similarities and connections and leave the junk. I have an awesome group of friends from AA
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AA and NA wasn’t for me either. I was able to set myself free on my own, using other ways that were right for me. Not everybody can do that, but the step programs aren’t the end all cure all for addiction. For some, yes, but not all. Do what is best for you, as you have been clean for 5 months now! Great job!! You have your way and that’s all that matters!
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Will power alone won’t keep you sober ….. whether it’s AA or some other type of support or treatment is needed for the long haul 
Hi just wanted to let you know Im Here I need friends support ect
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I went a few times. It was wild. I’m not against it I just live in a small down and have yet to attempt to find a meeting I can make it to and vibe with.
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You can never have enough friends 
thank you.
My Facebook is Nikki mccrory
I have a good family support system with a history of alcohol abuse in our family. I’m very lucky to be surrounded by people who support me. My circle is small but it’s strong.
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Ya it can be tough!!!! Gotta have the vibe
Kirsten where you located? Well I personally do not do meetings at all and that whole base does not work for me personally. I think at least going to one is good to see what it is like near you since they are very different all over. I've been to some in Cali that were nothing like where I am. But if you can be open minded and if you go again you go again if not you move forward. As other people say will power won't keep you sober, treatment is needed, and snark remarks is that's rubbish. They drank the coolaide and think there is no other way. You don't have to believe in a program, believe these theories, just believe in you doing it. You say you have a great support system so that's great lean on them if needed. Stay on you're path and keep charging.
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AA is not for everyone! There are other options out there that are quite different but with the same goals. I go to refuge recovery which has saved my life. There is also recovery dharma, smart recovery and recovery champions. Do some googling and see what's available to you(zoom too) and see what fits. Also in my area we have a small gym dedicated to people in recovery that has yoga, spin, weights and a bunch of different types of meetings. I have found a lot of people/friends There.
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AA was never for me. I tried for 10 long years and failed miserably. Sponsor, steps and or only 25 different meetings. Found my people…finally. Called the Luckiest Club. On Facebook and Instagram. Check out the book too. Online zoom, 40 meetings a week, meet ups all over the place, small, and local sub groups, a book club, running club. Truly, with no exaggeration it is saving my life one day at a time. Maybe worth a look. Many recovery paths. May you find the right one for you!
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Try looking for sober activity groups. I use the Phoenix app. They have locations all over the US. Think meetup but everyones sober, and it's free.
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